Feeling like you may have lost that initial spark in your love life? What with working a full time job, having children or just the daily demands of life can make intimacy challenging to say the least. If your trying to get back the passion of when you first met, here a 5 steps to get you back that fantastic honeymoon feeling.
Getting in the Mood
It takes a little planning to make sure you are both in the mood for a romantic evening. Timing can be everything and pouncing on your partner as soon as they walk through the door is not always the best plan. Make the effort to do something that they would really appreciate first. This may be something as simple as cooking a nice meal, doing that job you have been saying you would do for the last few weeks, or taking something off thier task list of things to do.
Also wine helps. Never underestimate the relaxing power of a good bottle of wine. Make sure you take the time and effort to get the brand and style they like. This combined with a shoulder and neck massage will go a long way to putting them in the mood.
Date Night
Sometimes it can be a real thrill to have unplanned passionate love making, but most of the time you need to be a little more prepared. This is especially the case if you have children. The best way to handle this is to organise a regular date night. Organise a babysitter so that the kids are looked after and out of your hair so you can relax and enjoy the evening. You may choose to go out to a resteraunt for dinner, or just do something fun that the two of you enjoy. Leave plenty of time to be alone together.
Fantasy Roleplay
One of the best ways to spice things up is to indulge each others fantasies. This may be making love in a particular location either inside the house, like the bathroom or the kitchen. Or it can be possibly outdoors. Making the effort to wear sexy lingerie is always a turn on, and is often a major part of the fantasy. Roleplaying is also easier with the use of adult costumes. Some of the most popular are the french maid costume or naughty school girl costume.
Romantic Weekend
Sometimes it takes a change of scenery to get out of your daily routine. A weekend away from the distractions of day to day life will let you focus on each other and definately get things back on track in the bedroom. It's also a good opportunity make love in the outdoors. Find a secluded spot while site seeing and try something a little different. Its amazing what a turn on the possibility of being caught will do.
In summary, it takes a little effort and some forward planning to have a good relationship and a healthy love life. Resolve to take an action right now that will put the fire back in your relationship.
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